Academy Awards Acceptance Speech Database

TYLER PERRY:
Thank you. Thank you. That is, that's incredibly kind. Thank you so much. They only gave me a few minutes, so. I want to say a very special thanks to Miss Viola Davis, who is nominated tonight and doing this. Thank you, thank you, I really appreciate it. To the Board of Governors, especially to Whoopi Goldberg, Ava.

You know when I set out to help someone, it is my intention to do just that. I'm not trying to do anything other than meet somebody at their humanity. Like a case in point, this one time I remember I was, maybe it was about 17 years ago, I had rented this building and we were using it for production. And I was walking to my car one day and I see this woman coming up out of the corner of my eye. And I say, she's homeless, let me give her some money. Judgment. I wish I had time to talk about judgment. Anyway, I reach in my pocket and I'm about to give her the money. She says: Excuse me, sir, do you have any shoes? It stopped me cold because I remember being homeless and having one pair of shoes and they were bent over at the heels. So it's like, yeah. So I took her into the studio. She was hesitant to go in, but we went in. We go to wardrobe, and there're all these boxes and everything around the walls and fabrics and racks of clothes. So we ended up having to stand in the middle of the floor. So as we're standing there in wardrobe, we find her some shoes, we help her put 'em on. I stand up. I'm waiting for her to look up. And all this time she's looking down. She finally looks up. She's got tears in her eyes. She said: Thank you, Jesus, my feet are off the ground.

In that moment I recall her saying to me, I thought you would hate me for asking. I'm like, how can I hate you when I used to be you? How can I hate you when I had a mother who grew up in a Jim Crow South in Louisiana – rural Louisiana, right across the border from Mississippi – who at 9 or 10 years old was grieving the death of Emmett Till. As she got a little bit older she was grieving the death of the Civil Rights boys and the little girls who were in the bombing in Alabama. She grieved all this all these years. And I remember being a little boy and coming home and she was at home, but like, what are you doing at home? You're supposed to be at work. She was in tears that day. She said there was a bomb threat. And she couldn't believe that someone wanted to blow up this place where she worked, where she took care of all these toddlers. It was the Jewish Community Center.

My mother taught me to refuse hate. She taught me to refuse blanket judgment. And in this time and with all of the internet and social media and algorithms and everything that wants us to think a certain way, the 24-hour news cycle, it is my hope that all of us would teach our kids, and not only to remember, just refuse hate. Don't hate anybody. I refuse to hate someone because they are Mexican or because they are black or white or LBGTQ. I refuse to hate someone because they are a police officer. I refuse to hate someone because they are Asian. I would hope that we would refuse hate. And I want to take this Jean Hersholt Humanitarian Award and dedicate it to anyone who wants to stand in the middle. No matter what's around the walls, stand in the middle, 'cause that's where healing happens. That's where conversation happens. That's where change happens. It happens in the middle. So anyone who wants to meet me in the middle, to refuse hate, to refuse blanket judgment, and to help lift someone's feet off the ground, this one is for you, too. God bless you and thank you, Academy. I appreciate it. Thank you.